\In`ci*vil"i*ty\, n.; pl. Incivilities. [L. incivilitas: cf. F. incivilit['e].] 1. The quality or state of being uncivil; want of courtesy; rudeness of manner; impoliteness. --Shak. Tillotson.
2. Any act of rudeness or ill breeding.
Uncomely jests, loud talking and jeering, which, in civil account, are called indecencies and incivilities. --Jer. Taylor.
3. Want of civilization; a state of rudeness or barbarism. [R.] --Sir W. Raleigh.
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incivility
\In`ci*vil"i*ty\, n.; pl. Incivilities. [L. incivilitas: cf. F. incivilit['e].] 1. The quality or state of being uncivil; want of courtesy; rudeness of manner; impoliteness. --Shak. Tillotson.
2. Any act of rudeness or ill breeding.
Uncomely jests, loud talking and jeering, which, in civil account, are called indecencies and incivilities. --Jer. Taylor.
3. Want of civilization; a state of rudeness or barbarism. [R.] --Sir W. Raleigh.
Syn: Impoliteness; uncourteousness; unmannerliness; disrespect; rudeness; discourtesy.